Why is my boss micromanaging me?
Micromanaging is usually about your boss's anxiety, not your ability. It spikes when they're under pressure from above, when they got burned once, or when they can't see your progress. When you make your progress visible before they ask, the checking usually drops.
Common reasons
- They're being watched more closely themselves, so they check you more closely.
- Something slipped once (on your side or someone else's) and they stopped trusting the default.
- They can't see what you're doing between check-ins, so they fill the gap with questions.
- Suddenly micromanaging often means a new pressure appeared: a deadline, a new boss, a bad quarter.
What to say
- “Here's where X stands, what's next, and the one thing I might need from you. I'll send this every Friday.”
- “What would you need to see from me to feel comfortable checking in less on this?”
How Saju reads it
Saju reads micromanagement as a control cycle: Metal cuts Wood, Water puts out Fire. A Metal-heavy boss often needs precision and proof, and a Wood or Fire employee who works in bursts looks unpredictable to them.
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